Personal Development

I LOVE YOU – FROM DADDY I am deeply saddened by today’s global culture, which is a culture of fatherlessness. This culture teaches or has taught people to think like they are orphans and therefore renders an orphan defenseless in their own minds. The traditional family structure has changed in ways that deprive children of […]

BUSY? MAKE TIME FOR WHAT MATTERS! Let us begin with an activity. Take a piece of paper and make a list of all the things that you find yourself doing that don’t really make a significant difference: going shopping, doing your hair, changing the oil in your car, watching the news and the list goes

BAD-MOUTHING! Hello friend, Let me ask you, have you been in a situation where people talk negatively about you or slander you for no good reason? Even of greater concern to you is that a lot of these people don’t even know you, have never met you, or know nothing about you? How does it

Leadership 101: Demands of Leadership Hello Friend, Let me start by asking a question, what does it mean to be a leader? Let’s go back to the basics. In my view, and as John Maxwell rightly puts it, leadership is influence nothing more nothing less and it starts with leading myself. What does that even

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX! Where are we headed as a society; as a people? I saw a number of articles on the mainstream media this weekend, all speaking to sexual freedom and how Christians are stifling people’s freedom of expression based on their high moral ground of sexual purity. To a certain extent, I don’t

I AM BROKEN! Hello Friend, I am broken. Broken, at how many lives are being lost each day. Broken, at the number of dreams buried. Broken, at how casually leaders are living each day as though things are ok. Broken, that the influencers in our nation are caught up in matters that are not changing

Self Worth Hello Friend! Do you have friends or are you in search of a friend and you are not even aware of it? Who would you tell me is your friend and what are some of the characteristics of a true friend? Many will say that a friend is someone who understands you, and

START WITH GRATITUDE As I listened to the first Sunday sermon for 2021, these words stood out for me “START WITH GRATITUDE”. The reason they did is that for most of us, 2020 was nothing like we had anticipated. We were forced out of our comfort zones. We had to rethink how we live. Who knew that

Life’s Secret Weapon A couple of weeks ago, I had an accident on my way to work. I was hit by a motorbike crossing the road and as a result I fractured a bone on my left leg. I was on cast for about three weeks and after it was removed, it was time to

Excuses, Excuses, Excuses = Mediocrity! Recently, I’ve been having a series of thoughts on the subject of mediocrity and what being mediocre really means. In recent weeks I’ve had conversations that in various forms have raised the topic of mediocrity. As a nation, I also feel we have become a mediocre society where we never